Where do you start when you want to be more visible? Being more visible is about getting people to see you and attract the right people. And just letting yourself shine, where you want to shine, as we talked about in all the other trainings, being in the right place, all of those things. But it's also important to start; otherwise, we won't get anywhere.
Here are 5 points that will help you to do that.
One thing that can hold us back when we want to be more visible is overthinking. As HSP's (Highly Sensitive Persons), we are prone to overthinking because we process things deeply.
That is a fantastic thing! We have brilliant brains that want to keep us safe. We can use that deep processing to our advantage.
But it can also keep us stuck because we're working on sorting the thoughts instead of doing what we want—thinking about too many things at the same time and wasting our energy by being too far ahead.
When we become aware of this, we can choose to stay overthinking or get into action. This is something you can exercise, so start taking fast decisions about small things right now. And when you feel that you think a lot, ask yourself; Is this helpful right now?
Use your thinking in the right place.
And the second thing is
You probably created your business because you wanted to create a life that works for you, where you get to use your full potential to help people and be more present in life.
Remember that you are the boss, you decide. Not only what you're creating but also how you react to what happens to you. And what you say no to.
You decide what is right for you; you decide what is right in your business. You can set up everything as precisely as you want. You're the boss.
Number three is to start before you're ready.
It's easy to think that we need to be ready before we start, that we need to have everything in place before we do, for example, a live stream. But we don't. You can have your phone and press go live; as scary as it may sound, you can!
You don't have to be ready before you start. If it feels scary, it's okay; you're human. Especially us HSP's are wired to think that new things are scary.
How do you learn how to ride a bike? You do it. You don't sit and wait until you're ready. Sure, you need to have the bike and the helmet, and maybe support weels and a grown-up to help you. But it's only you who can decide to practice and learn how to bike.
Do the action and learn from it. Like riding a bike, you won't get it perfect from the beginning. You get back up on the bike and practice. And you will eventually get it; you will get better and better. And it's the same with business. Same with going live same with everything. Start before you're ready because that's the way you get the knowledge and experience.
You probably heard this before. Consistency is key because you connect with your clients, and they get to know, like, and trust you.
It's also key because you take the pressure of things when you know you will get more chances of doing it. If we're doing a webinar and think it's going to be the best webinar of our lives, we're putting pressure on ourselves. If it's one of many, we can relax and learn.
Consistency helps us building up our knowledge and experience.
It also helps you to see that you're in for the marathon and not for the sprint.
It's not about going live every day; it's about finding consistency and routine that works for you. Start low, and as you become more comfortable, you can increase.
The fifth one is: focus on the here and now. Ground yourself
"I am here. I am Here. I am here."
Ground yourself and be in the present. What can I do now? One small step in the right direction. The important thing is that you can do right now and that you start.
That's 5 things that will help you get started. So go and do that one thing and tell me what you did so I can celebrate you!
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