What if everyone thought of themselves first? What would the world look like? I see a world with happy and passionate people doing what they love and contribute in their own special way using the talents and gifts that they have. I see a world where people draw healthy boundaries. Where it is ok to say no and ok to say yes. I see an authentic world were everyone can be themselves just as they are, no need for judgment or guilt. I see a world where we help each other because we want to and can, not because we think we should or have to. Theres no need to do something just to be accepted, you are accepted just the way you are.
What if you would start living in that world right now?
You might say that it is bad to be egoistic, I say it is good. Being egoistic means that you take responsibility for you and you let everyone else take responsibility for them. If they are grown up, they can handle it.
If you don’t think of yourself, who will? You might...
Life is a game, in fact it's full of different games and you can choose if you want to play or not and you can also choose the rules or if you want to play a different game.
I love playing games and this view on life helps me to have a more playful and open approach to life. We actually don't have to be so serious all the time. let me give you an example.
When I had to go to the grocery store with my two toddlers I would give myself one point for every item I checked of on the list before the shopping was abrupted by one of them: needed a change, where lying screaming on the floor or was missing. Yes, I tried to avoid shopping with them but sometimes I took on the challenge. ;-)
I have also chosen the game of being an online entrepreneur instead of the one of employment which have two totally different sets of rules. By thinking like this I can also see the situations clearer and adapt to the rules that are actually there.
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